If you missed this weekend at TheChurch on Strayer…

Forgiveness is one of love’s greatest virtues.  No one can truly love without forgiving.

Forgiveness releases us from the anger and bitterness of our past.  It lightens the load we carry and thus increases our strength for living today.

God’s desire is for us to experience and enjoy His forgiveness and to live as forgiven people.  When you “forgive” you bestow His “favor” unconditionally.

Forgiveness brings release from guilt and shame.  The prison door of our soul is opened and we forgive.

The power of forgiveness brings restoration and unity within relationships and families.  A forgiving family is a Model Family.

Share this message with someone today who needs it.  Or better yet, ask them to join us next week as we continue Model Family at TheChurch on Strayer.

10.10.11

If you missed this past weekend at TheChurch on Strayer…

Past generations were able to maintain hope through difficult times because they had three anchors of stability in all of their societies:

          1) Faith in God
          2) Stability in the family
          3) Pride in one’s country

Without a foundation of Biblical principles, husbands and wives have difficulty understanding each other because the male and female role differences are blurred by our addictive society.

Individuals without God become as god to themselves.  Each determines what is right for himself.  No absolutes.

In order to be a functional family, it must begin in the marriage of the husband and wife.  The marriage must be built on trust, loyalty, monogamy, and commitment. The Ten Commandments also show God’s priority on the foundation of all human relationships – the family.

Here are the ten characteristics of the Functional Family.  Assess these characteristics.  Which do you need to focus on, work on, and develop in your family?  Be assured, when you concentrate on these characteristics and make them a priority in your family, you’ll see a functional family.

1)       Positive─  living in a non-judgmental, encouraging environment.

2)       Caring─ showing concern, kindness for one another

3)       Accepting─ appreciating and celebrating uniqueness and differences

4)        Affirming─ adding value to one another.

5)       Loving─ exhibiting genuineness, intimacy

6)       Nurturing─ helping each other become who God created them to be.

7)       Sharing─ communicating freely and openly.

8)       Becoming─ growing into their role in the family

9)       Laughing─ allowing lighthearted moments of just letting go

10)    Harmonizing─  working individually while being team-oriented.

 

24.10.11

Perseverance in the Kingdom

It is a law of life – perseverance always outlasts persecution.

Perseverance is probably the single most common quality of high achievers.  The longer you persevere in any endeavor, the greater the probability that something will happen in your favor.

Success in life comes through industry – dedication, commitment, patience, self-discipline, and hard work that brings positive results.

Every living thing on planet earth is designed to grow.

Humans and animals have within them an inborn need to grow and develop their full potential.

Paul said, I can do all things through Him who strengthens me…  We are more than conquerors through Him who loved us.

Jesus gave us the principle of success in perseverance when He said, ask and keep on asking, seek and keep on seeking, knock and keep on knocking.

Ask

Seek

Knock

The Father gives good things to those who keep asking Him.

Jesus created our humanity and knows its tendency to give up quickly, to become inconsistent and lackadaisical.

God rewards persistence! God slowly yields the good things of the kingdom and the world to those who struggle.

  • Abraham waited a hundred years before he received Isaac, the child of promise.
  • David was hunted as a criminal for 17 years before becoming king of Israel.
  • Joseph persevered through 13 years of struggles until he became second in command in Egypt.

God’s kingdom can only function in our lives to the extent we operate in faith.

Perseverance in the kingdom is dependent upon the degree to which we allow His life to dominate us.

13.01.12

Perhaps that phrase – “Carpe Diem” – Seize the day or the moment – best describes our now season at theChurch.

The only way to seize the day is to be present in the present.

Let me ask you a question – do the dimensions of your living equal the dimensions of His purpose for your life?

His purpose for you is pregnant with divine possibility but integrated with human responsibility.

We are to place each day in the balance and make it tip the scales in a way that will bring glory to God and blessing to the lives of others.

In order to seize the day, the moment, we must do three things:

1)   Walk (live) purposefully.

2)   Walk (live) as wise people.

3)   Redeem the time.

The ultimate aim of God knowledge is control.  His purpose for us is that we would “let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus.”

The most important principle for human growth and development is how you respond to your seasons.

You determine the value of you; you determine the value of your time; you determine the quality of your effort.

 

 

 

20.01.12

How can we, in our finite beings, understand and grasp something so vast as the Kingdom of God?

By a process of renewal, God generously loves us and patiently leads us from our fleshly perspective into our true spiritual selves.  God is available always to lead us into spiritual reality.

It is in our personhood – experiences, feelings, thoughts and will – where we come to know exactly what the spiritual is.

Our “spirit” is who we are and from which we cannot escape.  It is our true nature and destiny.

Our “spirit” was created by God for Him to communicate His life and purpose into our daily life. 

John 3:36 (MSG) - That is why whoever accepts and trusts the Son gets in on everything, life complete and forever!

He thus enables us to know His truth, to do His truth.  This truth is partial and incomplete – I Corinthians 13:12 – Now I know in part.  His truth empowers me to interact with Him in His Kingdom rule.

His truth equips us to live our purpose as we function in a conscious, personal relationship of interactive responsibility with Him.

Eternal life also means His Spirit dwells within us – we are “born of His Spirit” (John 3:5).

We are spirit, we have a soul, and we live in a body.

God created every living thing to live within its natural habitat.  What it is, dictates its world.  Move it out of its special environment and it struggles and dies.

As human beings we are created to live spiritual lives deriving our life from His life.  It is the way we are created to live.

Day by day we are to integrate our life into the spiritual world of His Kingdom rule.

Increasingly as we do this, our life is filled with His wisdom, knowledge, strength and power.

You and I are made for the spiritual environment of His Kingdom rule.

23.01.12

Let Your Light Shine!

With your Bible, read Matthew 5:14-16.

In the study of life, one thing is most certain – without light there is no life.  Light is necessary for photosynthesis to occur.

When Jesus commanded us to “Let our light shine” He was telling us what we are meant to be – light – and what we are meant to do – shine.

A changed life must become in turn a life-changer.  Light is a symbol of radiance, openness, and joy.

Everything that is purely itself fulfills its purpose.   It is the nature and purpose of light to shine.

The only answer to darkness is light.  Light and darkness do not mix, for light is a positive energy while darkness is simply the absence of light.

While light can pierce the darkness, darkness cannot penetrate light since light always dominates.  When light hits darkness, the darkness is pushed back at the speed of 186,000 miles per second.

The mission of Jesus is to conform Believers to His image and to empower them with His light so they can perform good works that will draw others to His light.

We empower Jesus in our lives as we do these good works.

There is a chemical element called selenium, which is normally a non-conductor of electricity.  No electricity can pass through it.

However, when light falls on it immediately it becomes a conductor, electricity flows through it.  And the amount of electricity that can flow through a selenium cell is exactly proportional to the amount of light that falls on it.

  • No light, no electricity.
  • A little light, a little electricity.
  • Great light, great electricity.

Thus we see how God’s light gets into the world.

An unsaved person is like selenium – a non-conductor.  None of God’s wisdom, love, and might pass into the world.  Let a ray of God’s light fall on a human heart and immediately the person becomes a conductor of God’s power to the world around him.

When our light shines God is magnified to those around us.  So, Let Your Light Shine!

25.01.12

Relying on God

One of the greatest life principles I have ever learned is:

            Nothing can enter my life without first coming through His hands.

God’s hand is always on the control center of our lives provided we are fully surrendered to Him.

No individual in the Bible who ever fully followed Jesus was ever decreased, but was enlarged.

For each of us it important to understand God’s enlargement process in order to live the enlarged life.  We should always remember that God has an “exact moment” for our season of enlargement.

  • Where is your lack today, your area of barrenness?
  • As you sing forth God’s praises and worship Him, increase and enlargement will come to you.
  • Get ready for God to enlarge our spheres of influence and usefulness.

As we move into the enlarged life, God strips off the chains, bondage and restraints; He equips us, arms us, makes us ready and strengthens our hand.  He makes us loose, pliable, maneuverable and ready.

Psalm 18:20-24

20GOD made my life complete
when I placed all the pieces before him.
When I got my act together,
he gave me a fresh start.

21Now I’m alert to GOD’s ways;
I don’t take God for granted.

22Every day I review the ways he works;
I try not to miss a trick.

23I feel put back together,
and I’m watching my step.

24GOD rewrote the text of my life
when I opened the book of my heart to his eyes.

I’m ready for another weekend, as we learn more about His Kingdom and how to live it!

Are you ready?

 

27.01.12

With Open Arms

No one can doubt that man was made a social creature and was meant to live inter-connected with others like himself.

Man was born with a longing for belonging.  We have an innate need for meaningful interaction with others.

Every sane person wants to be wanted, accepted, enjoyed, and loved.

Only by living together in the community of faith can we experience a sense of wholeness, self-worth and a healthy self-concept.

Only in the context of connection with others is it possible for our deepest needs to be met.

God’s plan to redeem fallen humanity revolves around building a community of faith where genuine love, acceptance, forgiveness and affirmation are experienced.

In the last forty years, there has been a serious decline in community life in America. 

  • People who volunteer in a political campaign is half what it was in the 1960’s. 
  • Active membership in local clubs and organizations, like parent-teacher groups, has dropped by about half since the 1970’s.
  • People visit less and have friends over less frequently. 

Although the level of connectedness between people in our society has dropped severely, their need for connectedness has not.

I Peter 4:8 – Above all, love each other deeply…

We must love each other enough to tell the truth to each other.

Let me give you a big word with an even bigger meaning – magnanimous. 

To be “magnanimous” means that you have a “great heart,” “a generous spirit,” forgiving, too big to hold a grudge.

That is what community looks like – real, genuine love, brotherly affection, great-hearted, generous acceptance and affirmation.

We need open doors, open walls.  We need to be out there meeting and loving people (not necessarily their behavior) where they are.  Don’t just do community, but do it with all your might.

 

 

 

 

10.02.12